Motivation Monday — September 29, 2014

~ On Mondays (Motivation Monday!) I write a post with a quote to motivate and inspire. Sometimes it will be something directly related to lymphedema, and sometimes it will just be because I like the quote. But it will always be something worth sharing. ~


 

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You may get off track, lose focus and end up in a place you don’t want to be. Have faith. Take a step back, evaluate your life, reconnect with the world, and the people who matter most. Find yourself again. Look out to the horizon, yours dreams may be far off, but they’re there, waiting for you to move toward them.

Motivation Monday — September 1, 2014

~ On Mondays (Motivation Monday!) I write a post with a quote to motivate and inspire. Sometimes it will be something directly related to lymphedema, and sometimes it will just be because I like the quote. But it will always be something worth sharing. ~


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It’s about who walked into your life, said “I’m here for you” and proved it.
 

For the first 18 years of my life I lived in the same state, the same town, the same house, in the same room. And then I left for college. Since then I’ve live in 3 cities and moved 5 times. Each move I’ve picked up my life and started fresh–either in a new city or a new job. I’ve gotten pretty good at making new friends. And I’ve also learned to appreciate really good friends, those I’ve known since childhood and those whom I’ve met in adulthood. It’s really not about how long you’ve known someone, it’s about how they show you they’re there for you. Really good friends don’t just talk the talk, they walk the walk. Thank you to those who have said “I’m here for you” and proved it. Thank you to those who have been my biggest champions in my lymphedema story. True friends are hard to come by, and I’m so fortunate to have you in my life.

Motivation Monday — August 25, 2014

~ On Mondays (Motivation Monday!) I write a post with a quote to motivate and inspire. Sometimes it will be something directly related to lymphedema, and sometimes it will just be because I like the quote. But it will always be something worth sharing. ~


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Don’t be ashamed of your story, it will inspire others.

After sending my fundraising email to my family, friends and coworkers, one of the senior staff at work not only contributed to my participation in the walk, but she thanked me for sharing my story.

Of all my coworkers, I least expected her to contribute. So you can imagine how much of an impact her contribution and her thank you for sharing your story meant to me.

At that moment a light went off and I finally realized that I had a story worth sharing. I was finally able to let go of the shame and be open with my coworkers. I shared my story with them and I’m so very glad I did.

I’m here now to share my story with all of you. It is my goal that something I write inspires at least one of you.

Finally sharing my story with the people closest to me (and now the worldwide interwebs!) has been one of the most fulfilling and downright therapeutic experiences of my life. I know I’m getting cheesy here, but bear with me :)

That’s why I encourage all of y’all to do the same. If you’re ready now, or if you need some more time, please feel free to reach out to me. I would love to share your story on this blog, whatever part or whole of your story you choose. You have something worth sharing and I want to give you the opportunity to do so.

This is about your journey–about learning, loving and laughing with lymphedema.

Motivation Monday — August 18, 2014

~ On Mondays (Motivation Monday!) I write a post with a quote to motivate and inspire. Sometimes it will be something directly related to living with lymphedema, and sometimes it will just be because I like the quote. But it will always be something worth sharing. ~


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“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” – Wayne Gretzky

I have a habit of coming up with some really great ideas (which are usually big risks), I commit to it, and then I start to freak out. Once I start to think through all that actually has to happen, I get scared, project failure and want to back out.

Failure is my worst fear.

But then I realize: well, if I don’t try, then there isn’t even a chance I could succeed. I deprive myself of the opportunity to surprise myself, and at the very least add another life lesson to my belt 😉

If I don’t even try, I live with regret. I live with the shoulda coulda wouldas. I live in the past.

All that you can ask of yourself is to take the shot. And if you miss, so what. You try and try again until you make it. You live in the present, in the moment. You sleep well knowing you tried.

Motivation Monday — August 11, 2014

 ~ On Mondays (Motivation Monday!) I write a post with a quote to motivate and inspire. Sometimes it will be something directly related to living with lymphedema, and sometimes it will just be because I like the quote. But it will always be something worth sharing. ~


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God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can,
and wisdom to know the difference.
 

Although I grew up heavily involved in the Protestant church, I no longer go to church or consider myself religious. Despite that, the Serenity Prayer is one of my favorite quotes. As someone who is a control-freak and a worry-wart, this quote couldn’t hit the nail on the head any better. The hardest thing for me to do is recognize when worrying is going to do me no good because it is something I have no control over. But then there are the situations where I do actually have control and can have an impact on the outcome. When I am able to make the distinction between the two, I stop wasting my time worrying and transfer that energy into making things happen. I am so much more productive this way! And everyone around me is grateful they don’t have to hear anymore of my what ifs :)

Motivation Monday — August 4, 2014

 ~ On Mondays (Motivation Monday!) I write a post with a quote to motivate and inspire. Sometimes it will be something directly related to living with lymphedema, and sometimes it will just be because I like the quote. But it will always be something worth sharing. ~


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“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” — Eleanor Roosevelt

Another one of my favorites. Oddly enough, though, when I’m particularly down in the dumps this is the last thing I want to hear. It just makes me mad. How dare you tell me it’s my fault that I’m feeling so crappy right now. But when I come out of the darkness a bit, when I can see the light, I remember this quote and it makes me even more determined to be in control of my story. I remember that it’s my choice whether I’m going let a person or an action or a situation get me down. I have the choice, and it’s my choice.